Kindness-First Ideas That Go Beyond Candy

Chocolates and candy have become the beloved go-to for showing appreciation on Valentine’s Day—but is there something even sweeter (and more tooth-friendly) we could share this year? At its core, Valentine’s Day is about letting the people we care about know they are loved. So why not celebrate through acts of kindness and appreciation? 

 Try introducing some of these kindness-first Valentine’s Day activities for kids: 

Make Appreciation Cards for Family and Teachers

Start your kindness-centered day by creating appreciation cards for family members and teachers. Encourage your kids to draw pictures on the cover and help them write thoughtful notes of gratitude inside. If your children would like to thank their teachers with something extra, a handwritten note paired with a small token of appreciation—such as flowers or a gift card—can go a long way. 

Caring Crafts

What would Valentine’s Day be without some heartfelt crafts? Show your love for friends and family with one (or more!) of these creative ideas: 

• “I Love You Because…” Jar 

• Decorate a jar and fill it with notes explaining why you love or appreciate someone. 

• Friendship Flipbook 

• Draw pictures or add photos to create a personalized flipbook celebrating friendship. 

• Friendship Bracelets 

• Perfect for kids who enjoy hands-on activities—create custom bracelets as a fun way to show you care. 

Read Books That Teach Love, Empathy, and Friendship

Understanding the importance of kindness, friendship, and community can be easier through storytelling. Reading together is a wonderful way to open meaningful conversations. Consider one of these titles while discussing kindness this Valentine’s Day: 

• Have You Filled a Bucket Today? by Carol McCloud 

• Last Stop on Market Street by Matt de la Peña 

• Be Kind by Pat Zietlow Miller 

Use Reflection Questions or Journaling Prompts

Thoughtful questions can encourage children to reflect and engage more deeply with the idea of kindness. Not sure where to start? Try asking: 

• How do your family and/or friends show you kindness? 

• How does it feel when someone is kind to us? 

• What is one act of kindness we can practice today? 

Try one—or many—of these ideas to make Valentine’s Day extra meaningful for the whole family. And if you’re looking for someone to help bring creativity, care, and kindness into your family’s daily life, reach out to us at info@nannyauthority.com .